What we say out loud can be heard by others as well as ourselves. The words we say in our heads can be very damaging to our psyche.
When offering words of advice think about the message that may be taken in many ways.
I know the person who offered this to me meant well, but it left a bitter taste in my mouth/mind.
"Nothing tastes as good as thin feels"
I love the taste of CHOCOLATE. I love the taste of STRAWBERRIES. I love the taste of PIZZA.
Does that mean I shouldn't taste my favorite foods because THIN feels better?
How does the person who can't eat feel when they see other people eating and they can't do it or it would kill them? Do you tell that person "Oh you get to FEEL THIN so your not missing the TASTE of this chocolate."? What the heck? I'd deck the person that said that to me. I mentioned in a previous blog about a woman who had cancer being envied for being thin from having it. This is the same thing. MESSED UP!
I sure wouldn't say such insensitive words to anyone. Why is it okay to tell someone who is overweight whatever pops into your mind and out your mouth?
I'm so over this mindset that overweight people just eat too much and they should stop eating too much. Just think how hard it is for a drug user or alcoholic to stop doing their addiction cold turkey. We treat them with group therapy or certain medications to ease the withdrawal symptoms. Overeating is about emotions. Eating to cover up pain or comfort when stress hits or to celebrate something.
I feel we have been taught to use food for many things in this country. As a child I was told I had to finish all my food on my plate because some other child didn't have food to eat. Was that supposed to make me eat it or send it to them?
The movie "Supersize Me" showed how the food industry, mainly fast food, is trying to fatten us up one Smiley Meal at a time.
Portion size is what we should want. I find I'm satisfied with a taste of the sweet stuff. YES I'd like to eat the whole dang cake, but a small piece is enough to feed that sweet tooth.
Learning what a REAL portion is made such a difference to me. I found out I really didn't know what a half cup of food looked like nor three ounces of meat.
I'll do a blog about portion sizes if I get feedback stating it is wanted.
My mind is just spinning.
I started watching a show on TLC called Big Sexy http://tlc.discovery.com/videos/big-sexy-videos/
and Supersize vs Superskinnyhttp://www.ovguide.com/tv/supersize_vs_superskinny.htm
Those two shows highlighted what being overweight has done to society and acceptance of larger people.
What do you think?
|Granddaughter as a baby tiger and I'm feeling thinner.|